How to say it
/ˈɛm.ə.ri/
Industrious ruler
/ˈɛm.ə.ri/
From the Germanic Emmerich (ermen 'whole, universal' + rīc 'ruler'). Same root as Emerich and Almeric; the English Emery was a steady masculine name for centuries before flipping unisex in the 2010s.
Emery comes from the Germanic Emmerich (ermen 'whole, universal' + rīc 'powerful ruler'), the same root that gave us Emmerich, Almeric, and the French Émeric. The name reached England with the Normans in 1066 and stayed in regular use as a masculine first name. The mineral emery (the abrasive used in emery boards) is unrelated, from the Greek smyris. The shift to unisex usage in the US is recent: Emery surged on the feminine side in the early 2010s and is now used more for girls than boys. It entered the US top 200 in 2015. Em is the standard short.
Feminine: peaked at #70 in 2023, currently #74 in 2025.
Masculine: peaked at #209 in 1881, currently #815 in 2025.
Source: U.S. Social Security Administration, names given to at least 5 babies in a year, 1880–present. See where the names are moving
Em is the standard short, shared with Emily and Emma. Some families use Emmy or Mery (rare).
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